May 18, 2012

Africa: Ready for Female Leadership

CAPE TOWN/SOUTH AFRICA, 4JUN08 - FLTR: Pierre ...

CAPE TOWN/SOUTH AFRICA, 4JUN08 - FLTR: Pierre Nkurunziza, President of Burundi, Bingu Wa Mutharika, President of Malawi, Thabo Mbeki, President of South Africa, Klaus Schwab, Founder, World Economic Forum, John Agyekum Kufuor, President of Ghana, and Raila Amolo Odinga, Prime Minister of Kenya, captured during the World Economic Forum on Africa 2008 in Cape Town, South Africa, June 4, 2008. Image: Eric Miller (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

As Joyce Banda, Malawi’s First Female President and Head of State, was sworn in this month, many Malawians were ecstatic. During the spectacle that occurred after late President Bingu wa Mutharika’s heart attack which resulted in his death, foreign journalists debated whether Malawi was “ready” for a female president. Some Malawians asked the same question, speculating that a constitutional coup would occur that would prevent her from assuming this role. Forgotten was the role that women such as former Official Hostess (First Lady), Cecilia Kadzamira played in the nation. She was the most powerful woman in Malawi for three decades. Towards the end of Kamuzu Banda’s presidency, she essentially run the country and was the de facto president. Therefore in recent history, Malawi has had a precedence of a strong female leader. However, what was also forgotten was a long tradition of female leadership in Malawi and Africa as a whole. As Africans, I think that it’s important for us to have a common, accurate and collective memory with regards to historical events on the continent, including societal issues. As Malawi ushered in the First Female Head of State in SADC, the media and public were mis-educating each other about the real progress of female leadership in Africa in various ways.

I will start with the terminology. In order to have a head of state, there needs to be a state. Prior to the Berlin Conference of 1884, where African states originated, there were no states in Africa. However, there were other forms of political units that had leadership like Kingdoms, Empires, Chieftaincies, clans, or ‘tribes’. Many of these political arrangements in Africa were matrilineal (traced ancestral descent through the maternal line), matrilocal (husband goes to live with the wife’s community), or matriarchal societies (A woman who rules a family, clan, or tribe). These arrangements lead to a long list in history of African leaders like Cleopatra of Egypt, Queen Nzinga M’Bandi of Angola, Princess Grace Matamba of Congo, Queen Nana Yita of Nsuta (Ghana), Queen Nana Aberewa Ampen of Juaben (Ghana), Sultan Fatimah of North Zanzibar (Tanzania), Ret Abudok nya Bwoc of Shilluk (Sudan). Over the years this history of female leadership in Africa, has continued in many rural areas. Therefore, if we are to only look at our history, we may conclude that Africa has always been ready.

Joueur d'Uruncungo (Player of Uruncungo)

Joueur d'Uruncungo (Player of Uruncungo) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

In fact, prior to colonialism Africa’s real traditional culture, was more gender progressive then the hybrid system that was introduced during the colonial era.  Traditional African culture has always been more gender neutral then the cultures of the global north where patriarchy and capitalism have created inequalities that have challenged for female leadership. Gender roles in African culture have traditionally more fluid. Africans women were serving as spiritual leaders (contemporary day pastors, priests), healers or sangomas, (midwives, nurses, doctors), herbalists (pharmacists), traders (business women) and other prominent positions. Women were also able to own property and had political participation.  During this same era, western women were not able to play these roles in their own societies. Therefore when colonialism was introduced state sponsored patriarchy, African women legally lost their social and political positions. This means that women’s leadership in Africa has been more about reclaiming rights we lost under colonialism rather than achieving them for the first time.

In contemporary times, challenged with regaining female leadership on the continent under new political formations, the modern state, African countries have made considerable gains. I compiled a descriptive list of contemporary women Heads of State in Africa that have been head of state that we can draw on to begin to pull our collective memories together:

1. Ruth Sando Fahnbulleh Perry (Liberia) – Appointed, First Female Head of State in Africa, Second Female Head of State in West Africa.

2. Ellen Sirleaf-Johnson (Liberia) – Elected, Second Female Head of State in Africa, First Elected Female Head of State in Africa, Second Female Head of State in West Africa.

3. Joyce Hilda Mtila Banda (Malawi) – Appointed, Third Female Head of State In Africa, Second Appointed Female Head of State in Africa, First Female Head of State in Malawi, First Female Head of State in Southern Africa.

Liberian President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf waves...

Liberian President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf waves to the audience at her inauguration in Monrovia, Liberia. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

In addition, there have been African women that have acted as head of state like President Rose Francine Rogombé of Gabon who served as interim head of state and Sylvie Kinigi of Burundi, and Carmen Pereira, of Guinea Bissau. Perhaps, the difficulty in including them on the list is can be explained by terminology. The titles ‘Interim’, ‘Acting’, and ‘Elected’ Heads of State may suggests a short term, temporary arrangement. It can also imply that the person is not the ‘real’ head of state. What is also problematic is confusion that arises over who is the head of state in political units. African countries have mixture of heads of state that have the title of President or Prime Minister – some countries others have both positions. However there is evidence that there is room to extend this list in the African context. Therefore, as journalists frantically try to meet deadlines in the corporate media houses, there is little time for them to take an accurate survey or analysis of female leadership. In addition, many journalists in the global North already have a limited knowledge of Africa. They seldom take the time to do their own research on the history of the continent outside of highlighting data centered on societal factors like the level of poverty, disease and women’s oppression. Therefore, this often leads to the misrepresentations and distortion about the dynamics of topics like gender and leadership on the continent. Many have never heard of Ruth Perry, the first African Head of State in Africa (1996-1997) who was succeeded by Charles Taylor in Liberia. She is sometimes not regarded as Head of State, however, many do differentiate Sirleaf-Johnson by noting that Sirleaf-Johnson is the first elected head of state. However we must decide how we want Perry to be remembered because she is in danger of being forgotten in our collective memories in spite of this achievement. In addition, because of the global practice of sourcing news from a few media outlets like Reuters or the Associated Press, at times, African journalists often source their material from these media outlets and end up unintentionally doing the same. This is why Africans need to have a collective memory about their history in terms of female leadership.

Queen Nzinga in peace negotiations with the Po...

Queen Nzinga Mbandi in peace negotiations with the Portuguese governor in Luanda, 1657. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

It is important to note that there have been a countless number of women that have been serving as Prime Ministers, Presidents (that may not necessarily be head of state) or vice-president in Africa in recent history. However, there needs to be recognition that these women, including Sirleaf, Perry and Banda, are following in the footsteps and tradition of Africa’s long record of female leadership. In order to answer burning questions about our countries’ “readiness” for female leadership, we need to understand our own histories outside of the ‘popular imagination’ of what Africa is. This question is based on assumptions on the level of gender equality in Africa. The assumption is that African men and African societies are sexist due to gender inequalities inherent or rooted in African traditional societies. This is simply untrue. African women in traditional societies have been leaders, healers, priestesses, and property owners. These rights that were increasingly denied to them under colonial patriarchy, and this then carried on beyond colonialism. African Women larelgy lost their rights and never regained them. There are several accounts of women’s participating in the political process by signing treaties as well as accounts of colonialist refusing to negotiate treaties with African women. These attitudes reflected gender relationship inequalities in western societies. These attitudes also continue to affect western women in countries that are highly capitalist and therefore, highly patriarchal. Therefore, our challenge today is to reclaim and regain traditional role as leaders for African women. However, we must have a collective memory with regards to  our history. This means learning about African history and recognizing the achievements of all our women.

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How important is a school Kitchen?

Do African schools need kitchens to ensure that the children are fed?

I don’t remember ever being inside a school kitchen but come to think of it why would I? I remember one school I attended the one meal that I ever saw being cooked was Posho/Ugali (Maize meal) how I hated that meal. It was not unusual to find creepy crawlies because the maize flour was too old nor unblended flour on one’s plate. The sad thing about this is if you were hungry you had no choice but to eat whatever was served up. It was a boarding school, we could not return home for dinner! The situation wasn’t any better for those on day release as rumour had it that they were the local poor children and most likely had no food at home.

Thankfully we had days off the dreaded maize meal, on those days we had rice, sweet potatoes or matoke (green bananas) but we never saw how any of this was prepared and ironically this food that was cooked out of sight in a school kitchen was nutritious and really enjoyable.

So what did the kitchen have to do with it? I sincerely don’t know but my guess is that because the maize meal was cooked on open fire and they needed a lot of space to do this.

I am not sure what school meals are like in Uganda these days but my guess is that there are probably much better than in my day. One thing I ma sure of though is that over 2 Million children are starving in Uganda

This is not necessarily because they lack a school kitchen as they are unlikely to be at school. But it does not have to be this way. Over at LET THEM HELP THEMSELVES OUT OF POVERTY We are working on a school kitchen for children at Ruhanga development school in SW Uganda so we can feed the children whilst they are at school. Most of these children the meal they have at school is likely to be the only meal they ave in a day.

 

This is our starting point in January 2012

The new school term started on 7th February and this is hoe far we had got but we run out money

We then had some luck- our Gift Aid Claim came through and we got this far and money has run out again. Do we really need a kitchen to feed these children?

Yes we do. it rains a great deal in SW Uganda so cooking on open fires isn’t always an option
We also need to ensure that the food is prepared in hygienic conditions, which is near impossible to do without a food preparation space/kitchen

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Youth Employment in Africa

WASHINGTON, April 11, 2012 – This month, the World Bank in collaboration with Africa Gathering will host a series of brainstorming sessions on youth employment in Africa. The sessions will be held in Ghana, Kenya and in the Democratic Republic of Congo, on the following dates:

  • Friday, April 20 – Accra, Ghana
  • Tuesday, April 24 – Nairobi, Kenya
  • Friday, April 27 – Kinshasa, DRC
  • “We want to hear from Africa’s young people themselves about how we can do more to create good paying jobs,” said the World Bank’s Chief Economist for Africa Shanta Devarajan. “These sessions are vital to hear directly from them.”

    The World Bank is creating a report on youth employment in Africa, where input from the continent’s youth is paramount. The brainstorming sessions will be held to collect real-time feedback, which will be reviewed and highlighted in the report. “Who better to offer solutions to youth employment than those who are most greatly impacted,” Devarajan said.

    There are an estimated 7-10 million young people seeking employment every year in Africa. Even countries that are reducing poverty at a rapid rate, such as Ethiopia, have not solved the youth employment challenge. If Africa’s youth cannot find productive jobs, the continent will not only fail to sustain growth and poverty reduction, it risks periods of civil unrest—as experienced in the Middle East and North Africa recently—because the expectations of these young people, fueled by growth and globalization, will be unfulfilled.

    Join the conversation on twitter: #Jobs4Africa

    About Africa Gathering
    Africa Gathering (AG) draws inspiration from the traditional, symbolic African Baobab tree the place where people can gather to share knowledge, exchange ideas and learn from each other. Under AG’s tree all speak openly, from activators to innovators, from artists to technologists. Under our tree we celebrate the change-makers and their work, we connect them to like-minded people, we share their passion for a positive Africa. Gathered under this tree, we bring African ideas and innovations to the rest of the world so that they can be recognised, used and celebrated. We provide an online and offline exchange forum that allows ordinary but amazingly talented African activators to champion their projects and concepts so that their achievements can be given exposure, gain momentum and attract interest from a global audience. For more information, please visit: www.africagathering.org

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    It’s time Diasporans returned home

    Just under a fortnight ago, Zambian President Michael Sata launched a scathing attack on Zambian nationals working in Botswana, advising them to return home.
    The language used was harsh, insulting and undiplomatic to say the least, but the question is, was Sata right?
    The newly elected leader accused Zambians of working to develop Botswana at the expense of Zambia, he seemed livid that he was being asked to officiate at the opening of a school that was of a lesser standard than one in his homeland and urged the diasporans to return home for the growth of their nation.
    I asked a few friends what they thought about the Zambian leader’s statement and the responses varied from “those were the rumblings of a senile old man” to, he was right and that as Africans we need someone to tell us such home truths once in a while.
    Being a Zimbabwean I have witnessed a wholesale flight of skills in the past decade and our loss in human capital can never be quantified.
    Recently I was in South Africa attending a forum on trade policy and I was shocked at the number of Zimbabweans holding lofty positions in the trade sector. What miffed me most was when they would constantly refer to themselves as South Africans, and I thought to myself, imagine if we had such brains back home. They spoke glowingly of the policies that they would lobby the South African government to adopt and what they had done in advancing the country’s stature as the gateway for Africa. I do not begrudge them that they went to South Africa to better their lives, that they saw better opportunities and took them. I would have probably done the same and I will probably do it given a chance.
    But I think it’s time for us to take stock of ourselves as a country, stop hounding out the best brains we have and above all nurture what we have still in the country.No doubt a huge proportion of the people outside our borders would love to return, but the prospect of a downgrade in their living standards is too ghastly to contemplate. Power, water, cash shortages, you name it are the order of the day.
    But these guys in the diasporans have the brains and the capacity to lift us out of our quagmire. I am reminded of an old speech by John Kennedy, when he said “ask not what your country can do for you – ask what you can do for your country”.

    I am a romantic and an idealist, yes. But I believe it can be done. The diasporans with their wealth of knowledge and experience can come back and help build some kind of Utopia here. Some will blame politics, but they can come and influence the politics here, they have lived in more democratic countries and have an understanding of life outside. I believe if they return, it will be akin to taking one step back and two steps forward and we will benefit as a nation.

    While Sata could have fashioned his statement in a more diplomatic manner, I believe the King Cobra had a valid point. It’s time we did something for our country.

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    Breaking News: Robert Mugabe fighting for his life

    In the wake of the Malawian President’s death and all the stories surrounding how a prophet in Nigeria had predicted it, another African president faces a very grim future and little is known about whether he will make it through the week or whether his illness is trivial.

    The news of Robert Mugabe’s condition broke out on 9 April 2012. It has been reported by both the Australian and The Daily Mail Online that the president lies critically ill in a Singapore Hospital. Whilst some speculate that he is in Singapore for the enrolment of his daughter into university, others have leaked that the ill president already handed  over power to his feared Defence Minister Emmerson Mnangagwa.

    Twitter is buzzing with this news with Mugabe being a top trend in South Africa already. There appears to be a lot of bitter and ill wishes for the president from tweeters and newspaper commentators, some who cannot wait for the president to kick the bucket.

    Would Mugabe’s death be considered the death of an African leader or just a common criminal and murderer? How do Zimbabweans feel about this?

    What are people’s thoughts and reflections on what the man has meant to the country. He could recover or he could die in a few hours or days, eventually. So… What does that mean for Zimbabwe and her people?

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    Zimbabwean Designers launch at luxury London retailer!

    In my last post, I mentioned we could have a new brand which could give the likes of Louis Vuitton, Chloe and Prada a run for their money. This new luxury ethical brand has established itself as “that shop with the great leather bags” within only a few months of opening its doors.

     

    Danaqa and the other blue door
    Danaqa and the other blue door

    I am talking about Danaqa World Chic, based in Notthing Hill. What is great about them? What I love most about Danaqa is their dedication to working mostly with women led businesses in developing countries across Asia and Africa. Their latest additions are from two wonderful ladies based in Zimbabwe who have designed specifically for the Danaqa brand; a jeweller, whose passion and vision is to create wearable art, and a leather handbag designer whose creations are mostly inspired by traditional art, culture and materials that are locally available.

     

    Taona by Mona Ceramic Jewellery
    Taona by Mona Ceramic Jewellery

     

    The first artist is actually a dear friend of mine that I met 8 years ago in Melbourne, Australia. Mona Nduku established Taona by Mona Ceramic Jewellery in 2010. A graduate from the Gemmological Institute of America with a Diploma in Jewellery Manufacturing Arts, Mona is absolutely passionate about using locally sourced products to produce world class creations that she hopes one day will change people’s lives by creating jobs in designing, manufacturing and marketing in her beloved Zimbabwe.

     

    Carefully painting each ceramic bead
    Carefully painting each ceramic bead

    And her pieces are very unique as she has used dainty ceramic beads instead of semi precious stones which gives her the freedom to design in all shapes, colours and sizes. She sent me photos throughout her production process.

     

    Taona design process
    Taona design process

    On changing peoples lives and job creation Mona says,

    I believe that one of the ways I can do that is by teaching the skills that I have learnt over the past 16 years in both manufacturing and retail of jewellery. All the products that we use are found locally and all our products are handmade giving the products more durability and quality.

    Taona by Mona design process
    Taona by Mona design process

    Mona has created some wearable art with meaning, even with the name of her business, she adds,

    TAONA means “ENLIGHTENED”. I believe that people with skills they are passionate about and have made a living from have been given those gifts to enlighten and change the community around them.

    Her introductory range is available now at Danaqa, but you will need to hurry as there are only 12 pieces left for grabs.

    Suede lined Danaqa satchel by Betty M. Alem
    Suede lined Danaqa satchel by Bet M. Alem

    The next designer launching at Danaqa is Betty Attfield, founder director of Bet M. Alem luxury leather bags. Danaqa said this about Betty when her Bet M. Alem creations for Danaqa came in,

    Bet M. Alem loves mixing classic, sophisticated design with the personality that Africa offers. Mixing traditional African cloths with rich, luxurious leather Bet M. Alem’s bags are as wonderfully contrasting as Zimbabwe, the country where the pieces are made. Bet M. Alem are the creations of a young, African designer, that utilised all of the resources around, whilst providing training, employment and skill in a country that is in desperate need for all of those resources.

    Betty started designing Bet M. Alem products in October 2006 and has experience from the Spanish, Vietnamese and Nigerian markets where she lived previously. It is no wonder with all her experience that Betty has designed one of Danaqa’s first logo branded bags.

    Flap Danaqa Logo Leather bag by Bet M. Alem
    Flap Danaqa Logo Leather bag by Bet M. Alem

    She is now based in Harare, Zimbabwe

    where I continue producing Bet M. Alem products with skilled crafts people who had lost their jobs when big factories closed due to the economic melt down in Zimbabwe.  The country’s unemployment rate remains very high at a staggering 70%.

    What inspires her designs? Betty says

    My products are mostly inspired by traditional art, culture and materials that are locally available.

    African Cloth Shoulder Bag by Bet M. Alem only at Danaqa
    African Cloth Shoulder Bag by Bet M. Alem only at Danaqa

    As you get an intimate look at her designs, and if you have a true eye for the diversity that African design brings, you will find not only Zimbabwean influence, but accents of Ethiopian and East African culture within her designs.

    Now I will not tell you again to hurry, Bet M. Alem for Danaqa bags are selling fast and the last I checked (this past Sunday), there were only 9 bags left!

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    Technology: Exactly what is it?

    Kenya and Africa as a whole has in the past decade been the subject of the media and recieved alot of attention what with creating a vibe that is tech fueled, ignore the fact that for now most of this technology or the tools used to build it are foreign.

    Wikipedia describes technology as the making, usage, and knowledge of toolsmachines, techniques, craftssystems or methods of organization in order to solve a problem or perform a specific function. It can also refer to the collection of such tools, machinery, and procedures.

    By this definition Technology is a very broad spectrum that encompasses all disciplines. Reading the local dailies or local blogs in Africa yields a different picture. Technology here refers to computers, phones and related fancy wizardry in the name of software solutions by the plethora of foreign/local IT firms. The efforts of a guy trying to build a helicopter from scraps that he picks around will likely not get even a passing mention.

    This lopsided view is going to be detrimental to our country’s well being in the long run. This is because focus and effort will not be directed towards ‘jua kali’ technology developed by the youth in village workshops but to the mac-book totting urbanite counterparts spending daddy’s money at the many hackathons and competitions. This in my opinion is not Africas’s future. It’s a haze created by the comparable effect that silicon valley has had on the American economy. Its a different ball game over here.

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    Apply for a MEST scholarship today

    The Meltwater Entrepreneurial School of Technology, funded by Norwegian Software-as-a-Service (SaaS) company Meltwater Group headquartered in San Francisco, is offering Ghanaian graduates interested in IT and entrepreneurship a unique scholarship opportunity to get trained and get funded to start IT based companies focused on global markets.

    ABOUT MEST:
    The Meltwater Entrepreneurial School of Technology (MEST) is a not-for-profit training organization fully funded by the Meltwater Group and currently training and developing the next generation of global software entrepreneurs from Ghana, West Africa. Graduates from the program with viable software based business ideas get seed funding, office space, infrastructure and mentors in our business incubator where they get to develop their ideas further and with support to help take their ideas off the ground. Our goal is to create wealth and jobs locally in Africa by training and mentoring young Africans to start their own software companies that can compete successfully in the global marketplace. It is our hope that these software entrepreneurs will inspire generations to follow in their footsteps. www.meltwater.org.
    WHAT MEST OFFERS
    • A two year FULL SCHOLARSHIP program focused on market-oriented software development and practical entrepreneurship training. Our goal is to provide you with the practical skills and resources you need to start a company that can compete in the global market space.

    • A full time in-house training in commercial software development and entrepreneurship within an international environment, an international faculty with over 20 years experience in software development and international business. Details on the training content is available at: http://www.meltwater.org/program/training/

    • Housing, tuition fees, meals and study materials provided to selected applicants

    • A business incubator that offers seed funding and infrastructure open for qualified graduates of MEST

    WHO CAN APPLY?
    Applicants should be university graduates, final year students completing school by June 2012. Prior knowledge in computer science or programming is not a requirement. Requirements include a degree from the following Backgrounds:

    - Social Science, Business, General Science, Computer Science, Engineering, Arts and other backgrounds qualify to apply to the MEST Program.

    SELECTION CRITERIA:
    Applicants should have the passion to start their own software company, an interest in technology / computers, confidence to take risks, drive / stamina, team player skills, good communication skills, personality & humour, entrepreneurial spirit.

    HOW TO APPLY:
    To apply to the MEST program, please follow this link:
    http://www.meltwater.org/admissions/
    Deadline for application: 15th April 2012

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    International Women’s Day and the courage to be

    Success begins with the first step…often into the unknown…with no other evidence than gut instinct…and the courage to be.

    The Akabusi Charitable Trust (TACT) is an organization dedicated to the rural communities of Nigeria. It came out of my yearning to get in touch with the country of my origin, a faint memory since being abandoned in the UK by my parents and in particular my mother.

    To be fair to both Mum and Dad it was an act of love, to give me a better highly prized British education. However with an inadequate understanding of time and distance and the limited ability we have to control macro politics or social dynamics, their dream was to become their worst nightmare. Three thousand miles of Atlantic sea, a three-year civil war, and a Greco Roman education rendered nature a distant relative to nurture and never the twain did meet.

    I’ve spent fifty years trying to connect the dots – to make sense of my past and embrace my present in order to create my future. Experiences in children’s homes, military establishments, international sports teams, national media studios, corporate suites and of course a twenty-year marriage (now divorced) have helped me work things out, but I’m still discovering myself.

    J. R. R. Tolkien is quoted as saying, “all who wander are not lost.” With no clear goal save to engage with Nigeria, I began charitable work in that country. That was just over ten years ago, in 2001. This past month – a decade on from my first experiences of digging bore holes “water and sanitation” setting up business (micro finance) – I was able to review the wonderful fruit TACT is bearing. I was proud to shake the hands of the latest cohort of women to graduate from the TACT Women2women program; women who now successfully demonstrate that they have the desire to better themselves, be part of the economic development of their local community, and leave a legacy.

    It made sense of the hard work of so many people who have banded around my dream, and given blood, sweat, and tears to make it happen. TACT aims to help build Nigeria one person at a time, by developing programs to support people in Imo state. One of our key target groups is women, and widows in particular. TACT has therefore set up a project called Woman2Woman with the aim of encouraging women in the developed world to help those less fortunate than themselves in Nigeria, A small grant of £100, paid in two installments, can make a huge difference to the life of a widow in Nigeria and her family by enabling her to start a small business and become economically self-sufficient.

    Unlike other micro finance schemes, Woman2Woman does not demand repayment of a loan but is a grant to promote the best possible chance of success.

    International Women’s Day has been celebrated since the early 1900’s in the developed world and is an official holiday in many countries across the globe. Every year humanity celebrates with a multitude of events held in honor and support of women and their contribution to mankind.

    I personally want to take this opportunity on behalf of everyone at TACT to thank the many women in the west and their forward-thinking male counterparts who have continued to support the growth and development of woman in Africa as we forge ahead and help “build Nigeria, one woman at a time.”

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    A Woman’s True Worth

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    As I’ve celebrated women this month, I have had occasion to think about what it means to be female in different parts of the world, and what a woman is worth.

    I was born to a father who adored his children, male and female alike. His stance opened doors for me that would have remained shut had I been born into a household where girls were not valued, or where they were valued less than boys. I just read an article by Indian journalist Nita Bhalla, in which she tells about her experience as a recent victim of gender violence. I find it incredibly sad that a man close to her resorted to violence against her instead of seeking to resolve his issues in a decent way. Could this happen to even  me–I, who have escaped much of this kind of bias because my Dad chose to value me?

    I was born and raised in Kenya, a country which still has very decided ideas about gender roles. However, Dad didn’t subscribe to them, despite the fact that Mom tended to lean towards them. It was a good thing, too, because we were a household of mostly girls, and I observed that other girls and women shouldered an unfair proportion of responsibility in and for their households.

    In our home, responsibilities were fairly divided between us all based on age and ability, rather than gender. We rotated chores every Saturday, except Dad–who almost always made breakfast (in a society where the kitchen is considered a woman’s domain)–and Mom, who often did the  laundry. As we got older, each of us children figured out what we absolutely loathed and traded chores with each other based on preference.

    The first time I realized that the functioning of our household wasn’t the norm, my brother had come home complaining that his closest friends, who were also only sons in their families, didn’t have to do any household chores. Dad immediately advised him that our home would never be run that way. So, not only can my brother mow the lawn and change a flat tire, he can also cook and clean. And guess what, his sisters can change a flat tire and mow the lawn, too, but in distinctly feminine ways.

    Dad encouraged all of us to become people of substance, to pursue the dreams of our hearts and to not let gender hold us back, even when society sent us a contrary message. He empowered us girls to value ourselves and taught our brother to value us and, by extension, all women. He never chided us for thinking outside the box, even when some of our ideas challenged his own conventional ways of thinking. He made room for us girls to fly where so many women’s wings were clipped. When other fathers felt cheated if their wives gave birth to daughters, Dad rejoiced in each child being a gift to him, gender notwithstanding.

    Many nations and communities have made strides forward in acknowledging a woman’s worth, however, there is still much room for growth. While it is true that women generally have it better now than they did in the past few thousand years, women stepping into arenas that have traditionally been male-dominated are still not accorded much respect, unless they inhabit those spaces in the same ways that men do.

    Take political leadership, for example. If a woman runs for or occupies office as the leader of a nation, perhaps, she tends to wield power in a way that is similar to the way men wield power. Former British Prime Minister, Margaret Thatcher, and current Liberian President, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, have both been referred to as “Iron Ladies” because of the tough stance they have had to take, in order for the men around them to take them seriously. I believe that a woman can bring powerful transformation to the world around her without having to trade in her femininity. This hasn’t always been possible, but we are walking into a new era where women can be simultaneously feminine and powerful.

    A woman can bring beauty (which is her essence) to everything that she touches–something that a man can’t do. Her worth does not lie in being able to do the same things a man can do, rather, in doing the same things differently. Women are neither more valuable nor less valuable than men; they are just as equally valuable. I dream of a world where this truth is fully lived out. This will, partly, be made possible by strong men who are not afraid to honor women, both privately and publicly, and who make room for them to fly in unmistakably feminine ways.

    A woman’s true worth will never be known where she is denigrated.

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